tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post928134487913750679..comments2023-10-28T11:20:55.062-04:00Comments on Ask Gay "Dr." Bill : Gay/Bi Guys Who Cheat on Their GalsWilliamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03053290865549099074noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post-67804019898729511652013-11-30T13:55:24.204-05:002013-11-30T13:55:24.204-05:00I appreciate your comments. I've always felt t...I appreciate your comments. I've always felt that "bisexual" men of the type you describe aren't so much genuinely bisexual but really closet queens who can't accpet their homosexual feelings. They can't sustain relationships with other men because of their guilt and shame. Without necessarily meaning to, the can really mess with the heads [no pun intended] of both the man and women they get involved with. <br /><br />A true bisexual, at least according to the latest theories, can be satisfied with either a man or woman [although even there we have to factor in preference] so it really tends to be homosexual men who need to cheat on their wives with other men on a regular basis. <br /><br />The man you describe uses that tiresome old excuse of pills and alcohol, but getting wasted doesn't turn a person gay. It's awlays a big secret, as you put it, because these guys are closeted and guilt-wracked and don't want it getting out to their wives, girlfriends or anybody else that they are attracted to men.<br /><br />They would all be better off with counseling and a good solid dose of gay pride. <br /><br />Again, thanks for your comments. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11792277745958053121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post-56087736616699322802013-11-30T04:46:26.702-05:002013-11-30T04:46:26.702-05:00I can honestly say I have some empathy for the wom...I can honestly say I have some empathy for the woman who made that post and I can honestly say I understand where she's coming from on the bisexuality issue. Myself, I was in the middle of a relationship between a man who I always thought was gay and his "cover" girlfriend (who he has a child by). One night while he, his sister and I were out and about (and after he had a few), he made a pass at me while his sister was pulled over on a back-road so I could pee. He got out of the vehicle when I was finished and told me how he felt about me and asked for a hug (one that lasted more than 20 seconds with some groping). Later that night he told me that he and his girlfriend were separated and he wanted to be with me. We spend that night together and two days later, he told me it was a mistake and that he was messed up on pills along with the alcohol that night. But the kicker is, EVERY bisexual man I've met has done something like this. And its always some big secret. Why? I don't understand it. And in many ways, I feel like a bisexual person should just pick a gender and stick with it. With all likes and dislikes, you always like or dislike one more than the other, anyway. Being decietful and secretive hurts everyone involved (especially when they lie to the person they're cheating with). A kind of "have it all" attitude. I could see if it was an attraction to personality and not just physique, but from what I can tell, its only about sex. I guess some people are just sex-crazed maniacs that can't control their hormones nowadays. And lady, if you're that upset about a man that did you like that, you need to look in the mirror and tell yourself to get a grip! The man was no good for you anyway. You're better off and you'll find better. Count on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com