tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post6859499132875780258..comments2023-10-28T11:20:55.062-04:00Comments on Ask Gay "Dr." Bill : Casual Sex and "Straight-Acting" Gays?Williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03053290865549099074noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post-53847995888784072362008-07-25T21:44:00.000-04:002008-07-25T21:44:00.000-04:00Thanks for some very interesting comments! I have ...Thanks for some very interesting comments! I have a couple of my own. <BR/><BR/>No, we don't all have to act like "raging queers" -- I presume you mean acting very stereotypically -- but some people can't help it -- that's just the way they are. Part of the fun (and exasperation) of the gay community is our diversity. <BR/><BR/>As for Dads and Husbands who have anonymous sex with guys, well ... not to "pigeonhole" anyone, but I think it's pyschologically much healthier for these men to accept their homosexuality and come out of the shadows, perhaps having a meaningful same-sex relationship. Most of these guys are full of guilt, fear and self-hatred -- not good -- at least until they find self-acceptance. And they are not always responsible when it comes to safe sex. They often don't see themselves as gay and persist in thinking of HIV as a "gay" disease that they can't get. Self-delusion at its worst. <BR/><BR/>Finally, greetings to my friend from Spain!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11792277745958053121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post-7596832395032710692008-07-25T19:28:00.000-04:002008-07-25T19:28:00.000-04:00HelloYou are quite right. Although in my country, ...Hello<BR/><BR/>You are quite right. Although in my country, Spain, gays can marry and adopt children, many prefer gay sex anonymous. In Spain cruissing practice is legal, provided it is not with minors. The age of consent in Spain is 13 years. Anyway, although I'm not promiscuous prefer life as a couple, although sometimes I have had anonymous sex without my partner learns.<BR/><BR/>A kissCHIKIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02519916882187166584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7038863081475174486.post-80801449226726093772008-07-25T12:55:00.000-04:002008-07-25T12:55:00.000-04:00My dad was one of them. No on should be pigeonhole...My dad was one of them. No on should be pigeonholed. As long as every one acts responsible and respectable who cares?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com